In S.E. Hinton’s novel “The Outsiders,” the relationship between Ponyboy Curtis and his older brother Darry is a central aspect of the story. Initially strained due to their differences and the weight of their responsibilities, their relationship undergoes significant changes over the course of the novel.

Strained by Differences and Responsibilities

Ponyboy and Darry’s relationship is tense and misunderstood at the start of the book. After their parents pass away, Darry assumes the role of a parent, looking after their brothers. Ponyboy and Darry seem to be at odds with one another because of Darry’s relentless pressure for Ponyboy to perform well in school and his strict rules. Ponyboy believes that Darry does not comprehend him and that he is frequently compared to the accomplishments of his older brother. According to Ponyboy, “Darry thinks I’m just a kid, and I don’t know anything” (Hinton, p. 5). Their relationship is strained by the weight of their obligations, which causes misunderstandings and resentment.